Aug

10

The Danger of the Build-Up

August 10, 2010 | 2 Comments

So a week ago on Sunday, I posted a booty-call looking for some fun with a new guy. As is usually the case with booty calls, it seemed to take forever to get a response. I did eventually get a response from a single guy whose profile sounded great and whose pics seemed [...]

Jul

25

About Last Night

July 25, 2010 | 2 Comments

Sunday morning.  Time to reflect on the previous night’s activities.
We went out to a house party with some friends that we have known for quite some time now.   They are the most gracious hosts ever and really go all out for this party, making special drink shots, setting up playrooms, and providing little niceties in [...]

Jun

6

Update

June 6, 2010 | 1 Comment

Real life has been incredibly busy for SuburbanSwingers! Mrs finished up a hugely time-intesive project at the beginning of May and started a new full-time job at the end of May.
I’ve had some time to play, but Mr has been having a few dates of his own.  I really enjoy thinking about my husband enjoying [...]

Nov

4

How Often is too Often? — The Perfect Swinging Schedule

November 4, 2009 | Leave a Comment

Swinging is a funny world. By definition, we are all in this lifestyle because sex is fun and we want the freedom to explore our sexuality both within and outside our marriage. However, there is this odd sort of judgment that happens when people think that others are too “slutty.” Like most [...]

Oct

26

Overcoming Jealousy and Exploring the Lifestyle with an Open Mind

October 26, 2009 | 2 Comments

I recently received an email seeking advice on how it works to share your spouse with others.  I will do my best to answer based on our own experience.  First, here’s the question:
Hi there!  I am the wifey in a loving beautiful marriage that has gone on for 14 years now.  I want to let [...]