Aug

16

Top Ten Items for the Prepared Swinger

August 16, 2010 | Leave a Comment

While swinging is sometimes spontaneous, it’s often really nice to show up to a playdate or party well prepared.  Following is a list of items I like to keep in our sex-bag.  I have a leather backpack that I keep packed at all times so I can grab it at a moment’s notice.  Take a [...]

Aug

15

Sex and Handcuffs With Mr BadBoy

August 15, 2010 | Leave a Comment

What is it about bondage and domination that makes sex so incredibly hot sometimes?  Is it because pain and fear incite a rush of adreneline and that rush causes a shift in the pleasure centers of the brain?  I’m not a neurologist, so I can’t explain why pain and pleasure seem to be so intimately [...]

Jul

21

That Kiss!

July 21, 2010 | 3 Comments

I got to experience one of the best kissers I have met in a long time recently.  This is someone who I kissed for the first time way back in March and it never went further than a kiss, but oh my!  What  a kiss.  This guy’s kiss turned me on more than some guys [...]

Jul

4

7 Days of Swinging…

July 4, 2010 | 1 Comment

I had a very adventurous week last week.  More playtime than I’ve had in a while and all different types.  My husband is generally the one who helps balance me and make sure that we keep this swinging thing in perspective.  I tend to live in extremes - all or nothing.  My husband, on the [...]

Jun

30

What Happened Next…

June 30, 2010 | 1 Comment

So to continue from the last entry, my date paid our bill and the two of us were playing a little game of asking questions.  After a few back and forth, he looked at me and asked me how I was feeling.
I still wasn’t sure if I was ready or wanting to fuck him.  First [...]

Jun

17

Meeting men on Craigslist

June 17, 2010 | 3 Comments

We’ve recently been experimenting with using Craigslist to meet playmates.  I find it really tedious and not very successful at all.   I don’t want to post our photos on Craigslist, and I don’t want to meet people whose photo I haven’t seen.  So Craigslist often becomes a game of chicken; who is going to be [...]

Jan

8

Sexy Time with a New Friend

January 8, 2010 | 4 Comments

To follow up my last post, the day after I had that little text message exchange with my hubby, a new friend asked if I might be able to slip away for some playtime on Saturday.  Although I had an extremely busy weekend with the kids and running them to all their activities, I did [...]

Dec

30

Random Hook Up Phone Sex

December 30, 2009 | 3 Comments

So I was on this Craigslist kick a while ago trying to meet some couples for hubby and I to play with and trying to find some men for me to have solo dates with or for threesomes with my hubby.  It really was not too successful at all.  Craigslist is just so different from [...]

Nov

21

Taking Naughty Pictures for my Husband

November 21, 2009 | 5 Comments

So I’ve written many posts by now about some very fun playtimes I’ve had.  Here is my first post about a recent experience that just wasn’t satisfying at all.  It’s my own fault, but sometimes these things happen.
For the purposes of this blog, let’s call the playmate in question: nakedinthecity.
MrNakedintheCity and I have been yahoo [...]

Nov

15

Why I Need to Not Answer This Guy’s Messages

November 15, 2009 | Leave a Comment

I have so many stories and ideas for posts that I feel like I could blog for about 3 months non-stop.  This is a good thing because it (supposedly) means that I won’t run out of things to blog about.   Currently I have three drafts started:

I have a post started on probably one of [...]

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