Aug

10

The Danger of the Build-Up

August 10, 2010 | 2 Comments

So a week ago on Sunday, I posted a booty-call looking for some fun with a new guy. As is usually the case with booty calls, it seemed to take forever to get a response. I did eventually get a response from a single guy whose profile sounded great and whose pics seemed [...]

Jul

25

About Last Night

July 25, 2010 | 2 Comments

Sunday morning.  Time to reflect on the previous night’s activities.
We went out to a house party with some friends that we have known for quite some time now.   They are the most gracious hosts ever and really go all out for this party, making special drink shots, setting up playrooms, and providing little niceties in [...]

Jul

10

Same or Separate Rooms

July 10, 2010 | 5 Comments

I assume that for some, the term swinging conjures up images of orgies.  Naked bodies everywhere ; fucking going on among all parties.  My husband and I have been to a house party where that happened.  At one point in the evening everybody moved to the bedroom and soon there were about 8 couples fucking [...]

Jul

5

What We Do & Who We Are

July 5, 2010 | 3 Comments

Lifestyle. Swinging. Wife Swapping.
What is this thing we do called?
First of all “wife-swapping”. I don’t particularly like this terminology mainly because I think it ruffles my feminist feathers. Wife-swapping sounds like something men decide to do with “their” wives. Just like they might do with their tools, boats, or sporting equipment. [...]

Jul

4

7 Days of Swinging…

July 4, 2010 | 1 Comment

I had a very adventurous week last week.  More playtime than I’ve had in a while and all different types.  My husband is generally the one who helps balance me and make sure that we keep this swinging thing in perspective.  I tend to live in extremes - all or nothing.  My husband, on the [...]

Jun

6

Update

June 6, 2010 | 1 Comment

Real life has been incredibly busy for SuburbanSwingers! Mrs finished up a hugely time-intesive project at the beginning of May and started a new full-time job at the end of May.
I’ve had some time to play, but Mr has been having a few dates of his own.  I really enjoy thinking about my husband enjoying [...]

Jan

1

Compromise for a Happy Marriage

January 1, 2010 | 3 Comments

My husband is out of town for the holiday weekend and I didn’t feel like doing any of the NYE parties alone. We had a little text exchange yesterday on his drive out of town that cracked me up:
HIM: Happy new year babes!  Hope you are having a great day.. and thanks again for being [...]

Nov

4

How Often is too Often? — The Perfect Swinging Schedule

November 4, 2009 | Leave a Comment

Swinging is a funny world. By definition, we are all in this lifestyle because sex is fun and we want the freedom to explore our sexuality both within and outside our marriage. However, there is this odd sort of judgment that happens when people think that others are too “slutty.” Like most [...]

Oct

31

Lifestyle Halloween Joke

October 31, 2009 | Leave a Comment

Here is a little funny that came to me via email:
A couple was invited to a swanky costume party.  The Mrs. got a terrible headache and told her husband to go to the party alone. He being a devoted husband protested, but she argued and said she was going to take some aspirin and go [...]

Oct

26

Overcoming Jealousy and Exploring the Lifestyle with an Open Mind

October 26, 2009 | 2 Comments

I recently received an email seeking advice on how it works to share your spouse with others.  I will do my best to answer based on our own experience.  First, here’s the question:
Hi there!  I am the wifey in a loving beautiful marriage that has gone on for 14 years now.  I want to let [...]

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