Swinging in the Suburbs

To follow up my last post, the day after I had that little text message exchange with my hubby, a new friend asked if I might be able to slip away for some playtime on Saturday.  Although I had an extremely busy weekend with the kids and running them to all their activities, I did have a few hours in the afternoon free.  I double checked with my hubby and let my new friend know that I could meet him at about 3:30.   He asked me to suggest someplace that was close to me, so I gave him the name of a motel about 5 miles from home that hubby has used with a friend.  It’s clean, convenient, and cheap!  Perfect for lifestyle trysts.

The anticipation with this particular playmate was pretty intense.  We’ve actually been out a couple times with some very nice “making out”, but we hadn’t actually had sex yet.  I know I was excited to finally find out exactly how much fun we could have together.

I got home from my son’s hockey game about 2:30 and hopped in the shower to get ready for my date.  I had allowed myself almost a full hour to get ready.  I took my time shaving and moisturizing, doing my hair and makeup, and slipping into something clean and casual.  Prior to getting dressed, I got a text from my date saying that he wasn’t going to make it after all.   I texted him and immediately got a phone call back from him letting me know that he had made some arrangements and we were still on for 3:30.  I gave him the name and location of the hotel and told him to call when he was close.

Once he arrived, he checked in and texted me the room number.  He met me in the hallway and walked me to the room.  I really enjoyed the fact that we had met a few times prior because I wasn’t at all nervous or uncomfortable.  I lit some candles that I had brought along; I HATE having sex with all the lights on!! We kissed for a bit and started messing around on top of the bedspread.  I quickly stopped to get us onto the nice clean sheets and we joked about me being germ-o-phobic.  But everyone knows they don’t wash those hotel spreads and people have sex on them all the time.  GROSS!  I jokingly said that the bedspread was probably stained with my husband’s cum from his own visit(s) to the place.  Once I brought that up, my playmate was more agreeable to my suggestion of getting us in the sheets.  LOL

So I really need to get better about blogging these experiences right after they happen so I can really remember how the sex actually progressed.  We kissed and rubbed our bodies together and he, of course, went down on me, since I had expressed earlier my affinity for that particular sex act.  He did a very nice job of arousing me, although I’m not sure if he is one of those men who LOVE to eat pussy.  I remember at one time saying to him something like “just a little bit longer, please baby” while gently guiding his head back down to my sweet throbbing pussy.  I also enjoyed wrapping my lips around his thick, hard cock.  Some men have a slight curve to their penis, but this guy’s is very straight, thick, and symmetrical.   I’m not a girl who can give hard, fast blow jobs.  Instead I prefer to gently arouse with my tongue and lips making the cock ache and throb in anticipation of more.  I like to engulf the cock in my mouth, while barely touching my lips to the shaft, enticing it to grow so that it can feel my lips.  I like to slowly take more and more of it into my throat until I gag slightly; I can’t quite deep throat, but I will try!  I did all of this to his gorgeous cock and then asked him if he was ready to fuck me.

He put on the condom and kept the hard on.  Hooray!   We fucked doggy style for quite a while and then tried some other positions as well.   He had two techniques that he used while fucking me.  Once was nice, the other not exactly my cup of tea.   Many guys try the kind of fucking where they thrust into me with one quick, hard thrust.  I’ve not yet found someone who can do that in a way that I enjoy.  The other thing he tried was awesome.  He fucked me slow and steady, but pulling out enough with each thrust that the head of his cock had to “pop” back into me each time.  Not quite all the way out, but enough that I could feel the ridge of his head at the opening to my vagina.  It was really, really nice and kind of new.

During our encounter, I would hear his breathing and pace start to quicken.  I remember one time begging him not to cum yet.  He assured me that he promised not to cum until I asked him to.  He followed through on that promise too.  Mmmmmmmmm!!  I like that!  We had a wonderful time and then chatted for a bit in bed about his parties and some mutual acquaintances.  Then I had to leave and get back to the kids.

That evening at my son’s second hockey game, some of the parents said that they had stayed between the games and gone out to lunch.  I slyly smiled thinking about what they would think if they knew I how I spent those same hours.   I spent the rest of the afternoon in a very good mood and excited to tell my husband all about my naughty play time.   I wanted to fuck again within a few hours.  I really think my ideal playdate would consist of sex, followed by going out for a meal, a movie, or some other kind of “vanilla” date, and then returning for another round of sex.  Doesn’t that sound like fun?!

So I didn’t give this playdate a blog-name yet.  Trying to think of something that describes him, but isn’t too close to his actual handle on Lifestyle Lounge. For now, he shall remain unnamed. In fact, I’m not sure I am liking the handle-idea for the purposes of this blog anyway.

So I was on this Craigslist kick a while ago trying to meet some couples for hubby and I to play with and trying to find some men for me to have solo dates with or for threesomes with my hubby.  It really was not too successful at all.  Craigslist is just so different from any of the swinger sites.  You have to do so much work to get to know folks on CL, emails back and forth, cajoling them to send pics, etc.  On a swinger site, you can browse ads all day long and the profiles can be pretty detailed which means you can get a good feel for someone’s personality BEFORE you invest a bunch of time emailing or talking with them.

Craigslist is good, however, for the random hook up type thing.  One guy on there happened to catch me on a good day a while back.  This was before I got my new job, so I was home a lot during the day.  So on this particular day, the CLPhoneSex guy suggests that we have some phone sex.  I was horny, so I figured, “why not”.  I got naked, plugged in my Hitachi Magic Wand, blocked my number and gave him a call.

He was really great at phone sex!  I masturbated while he aurally aroused me with his naughty, naughty stories.  He got me VERY turned on talking about sucking other guys’ cocks and all sorts of other nasty stuff.  It was really fucking HOT!  I had a few really great orgasms with him.  When the phone call was over, he said that he couldn’t wait to meet me.   Myself, on the other hand, was feeling pretty satisfied with how things went and felt no desire whatsoever to take things to the next level.

Basically it was a one time thing as far as I was concerned.  He has since sent me a couple emails and some yahoo messages wondering when we might talk again and I’ve basically just ignored him.  I can’t decide if that makes me rude or not?  I basically just used the guy for my own orgasmic needs with no real desire to actually meet him.  Is that wrong?  Am I just someone else’s Mr TallBaldnHandsome??

So I’ve written many posts by now about some very fun playtimes I’ve had.  Here is my first post about a recent experience that just wasn’t satisfying at all.  It’s my own fault, but sometimes these things happen.

For the purposes of this blog, let’s call the playmate in question: nakedinthecity.

MrNakedintheCity and I have been yahoo chatters for quite a while now.  Maybe even a year or so.  It’s been pretty fun, but he and his wife have never managed to actually have time to go out as a foursome.  Maybe about 6 months ago or so, he and I actually met in person at a mutual friend’s birthday celebration.  He seemed cute and I remember thinking wow, that’s a nice surprise.

That birthday celebration was the only time I’ve actually seen him in person, but we’ve continued flirting and chatting online a bit.  Anyway on Wed, we were discussing how nice it would have been if he had walked me to my car the night we met and we had taken the opportunity to play kissy face and other games.

Long story short (since as you will see later, its an appropriate storytelling device for this particular story), he invited me to his house on Wed morning for a quickie.  My husband was super excited and asked me to send him photos.  So I drove to his place and went inside.  First thing I noticed is that he wasn’t as cute as I had remembered.  He led me to the basement, where his family room and office are.  We basically started kissing right away and he had that “morning smell” of someone who hasn’t showered or maybe yet brushed his teeth.  It wasn’t completely disgusting or anything like that, but also not “freshly” prepared for a playdate.  I’ll fuck my husband in the morning without a shower/shave/toothbrushing, but a playmate is different.  I was *almost* going to tell him I changed my mind and leave, but instead decided to stay.

He put some towels down for us on this couch/chair thing and we played for a very short time.  He ate me out a bit and I tried to snap a couple pics, but couldn’t get the right angle.  Then he fingered me and he snapped a few photos.  Then he pulled a condom from behind the books on his bookshelf and fucked me, again snapping a few pics.  He was fucking me pretty slowly and I wanted an orgasm (since he hadn’t given me one yet), so I started trying to get it going faster/harder/at the right angle/etc.   In very short order, he came.  He was willing to keep plugging away, but I don’t like to do that after a guy cums cause the cum-filled condom can start slipping around and that kind of defeats the whole purpose.  So I pulled away from him.

He went into the bathroom and I put my clothes back on.  I checked out the pics and thanked him for taking photos that I knew my hubby would enjoy.  I was back in my car 25 minutes after pulling up in front of the house.  I couldn’t help but laugh.  It was probably one of the least sexually satisfying experiences I’ve had in the lifestyle.  Although, at least he was able to stay hard and actually fuck me.  I’ve had that problem with some men too.

My hubby enjoyed his pics, but I made him delete them all.  I am WAY too nervous about them getting into the wrong hands.

As for MrNakedintheCity??  Well he now knows what it’s like to fuck me.  But I don’t think I’ll be seeking out a repeat of that one.

Good morning all!

Thank you for waiting so patiently for the details of my Wed morning date!  It was very, very fun and I started this entry right away, but there was so much to write, and it’s taken me a couple days.

I am debating how to “name” my boy toys for the purpose of this blog.  Should I give them a “handle” (like badboy6543) or pick a pseudonym for them (like George)?  Interested in your thoughts on that.  For now, I think I will go with the “handle” idea.

So Wednesday morning after getting the kids off to school, I drove over to MrBadBoy’s place and parked across the street.  He told me to text him when I got there and he would come out to greet me.  That’s a good start!  He came up to my car and it almost seemed like he might kiss me right in the street, but I was a little too shy for that, so we walked into his place together.  Once inside, we started things out with a very nice hello kiss followed by a little giggle from me.  He walked me over to his couch where we just sat talking for a while.  He had requested that I wear a skirt, so I sort of draped my legs over his lap so he could touch my legs.  It was really nice just to get to know him a bit better since we’ve really only met briefly about 3 times.  After a bit of learning about each other, he started kissing me again and pulled me to my feet.  (He had already removed my shoes and played with my toes some on the couch….LOVE THAT!)

We kissed a bit more and he took me into the bedroom, where he removed his pants.  His hard cock was a nice bulge in his boxer briefs, so I went over to him and did this teasing thing I love to do.  Essentially I tease my mouth and face over a guy’s cock while he’s still wearing clothing.  Sometimes I’ll expose just the tip and give it a little kiss before hiding it inside the pants again.  So I did that for a bit and his cock was glistening with pre-cum, which is incredibly sexy.  When I stood up, he walked me over to the bed, and laid me down on my back.   Here is where the details begin to get a bit fuzzy.  I think he started by pulling up my skirt (or maybe he had already taken it off) and burying his face in my pussy which is basically my favorite thing in the world.  I was so wet and excited!  And when he began filling my pussy with his fingers, the intensity of what he was doing caused me to squirt all over his hand and face and bed.  Whenever a guy is turned on by that, it makes me cum even more!

He also had incredibly succulent nipples which I so enjoyed sucking and lightly biting.  After a while, he said something like “I can’t take it anymore,” and put on his condom.  I wanted to be fucked doggy style, but he asked to have me on my back instead.  And really that is also one of my favorite positions, so I obliged.  He was nice and slow which was kind of a fun contrast from the intense, slightly rough foreplay we had.  Really enjoyed being fucked by him and finding the correct positions for our bodies to work together.  It’s really different with every playmate as to which positions “work” best.  One of my favorite positions with him was with my left leg over his right shoulder and my right leg wrapped around him.

When we were done, I spent some time kissing his chest, arms, nipples, and cock.  He even let me do one of my favorite things which is to suck on a nice soft cock that is spent from a good fucking.  Most guys tend to push me away and say that they can’t take that much stimulation after orgasm.  MrBadBoy, however, covered his face and allowed himself to experience the intensity even though it was obviously a bit difficult for him.   That turned me on so much!

We layed in the bed for a few minutes and then I got up and got dressed.  He walked me to my car and gave me a kiss good-bye.  I was so turned on that I took about 3 wrong turns on the way home!!  Also found myself smiling throughout the day.  It was a very good playdate and hopefully the two of us will play again soon.

In a little less than nine hours, I will be meeting with a brand new playmate at his house for a morning playdate.  I am pretty excited and a little nervous too.  This guy is very quiet and a little rough around the edges and yet I can tell that he will be super concerned about making sure I have a good time and am well taken care of.

He and I first met a few months ago when we found each other’s profiles on Lifestyle Lounge.   We considered meeting for a booty call at that time, but I was a little aprehensive.  I’m not as much of a booty girl think as I think I am sometimes.  LOL

A little while after that, we ended up meeting each other in person when a mutual friend invited my husband and I to meet her and “some friends” for some drinks and dancing.  The mutual friend gave me a little insight about how much she enjoys MrBadBoy’s company.  He and I kissed each other good night and it was pretty intense. I have a feeling he knows how to be a little rough and naughty with me and I can’t wait. It can be a little scary to play with someone who might enjoy rough play as much as I do because you have to really trust that this guy will respect your boundaries.  I feel really good about this one though.  I would never agree to go to a guy’s house unless I was pretty sure about his intentions and respect level.

Check back later for all the naughty details!