Nov

28

I’m Still in the Swing….Just No Time to Blog

November 28, 2009 | Leave a Comment

Hello out there!  Life has been so ultimately crazy lately.  I hope you all didn’t think that the disappointing sex in my last blog turned me off from the lifestyle for good.  Couldn’t be more wrong.  I’ve had some really fun times since then.  We went to another large hotel party last weekend and I [...]

Nov

21

Taking Naughty Pictures for my Husband

November 21, 2009 | 5 Comments

So I’ve written many posts by now about some very fun playtimes I’ve had.  Here is my first post about a recent experience that just wasn’t satisfying at all.  It’s my own fault, but sometimes these things happen.
For the purposes of this blog, let’s call the playmate in question: nakedinthecity.
MrNakedintheCity and I have been yahoo [...]

Nov

16

Kissing vs. No Kissing

November 16, 2009 | 3 Comments

I have heard rumor that some swinging couples don’t “kiss” the other couple when they swing.  It seems that kissing is too intimate or romantic or something.  Personally I have NEVER yet met a couple that won’t kiss.  I think it’s absolutely crazy! My first reaction is that these non-kissing swingers have likely watched the [...]

Nov

15

Why I Need to Not Answer This Guy’s Messages

November 15, 2009 | Leave a Comment

I have so many stories and ideas for posts that I feel like I could blog for about 3 months non-stop.  This is a good thing because it (supposedly) means that I won’t run out of things to blog about.   Currently I have three drafts started:

I have a post started on probably one of [...]

Nov

13

Details from Wednesday Morning’s Playdate

November 13, 2009 | 2 Comments

Good morning all!
Thank you for waiting so patiently for the details of my Wed morning date!  It was very, very fun and I started this entry right away, but there was so much to write, and it’s taken me a couple days.
I am debating how to “name” my boy toys for the purpose of this [...]

Nov

11

Anticipation

November 11, 2009 | Leave a Comment

In a little less than nine hours, I will be meeting with a brand new playmate at his house for a morning playdate.  I am pretty excited and a little nervous too.  This guy is very quiet and a little rough around the edges and yet I can tell that he will be super concerned [...]

Nov

9

Swingers get FREE Ice Cream!!

November 9, 2009 | Leave a Comment

This story needs a little background.
There is a weekly swingers event in the Twin Cities that used to meet in a neighborhood bar very close to our house. The bar is very small and other than our lifestyle group, there would typically be a handful of regulars in there as well. After several [...]

Nov

9

Our First Craigslist Posting

November 9, 2009 | Leave a Comment

Wednesday of last week, we tried something completely new. We posted a Craigslist ad looking for a couple who might want to host us for an evening of playtime. We were just very much in the mood to play, but these sort of short order searches generally don’t usually amount to a whole lot. Typically, [...]

Nov

7

Parking Lot Sex with a Brand New Hot Sexy Playmate

November 7, 2009 | Leave a Comment

I had fun with a new guy on Thursday night. We occasionally meet a group of swingers at a little dive-y neighborhood bar for karaoke. A really good friend of ours started what has become a weekly event for swingers in the Twin Cities. The event started sometime over the summer and at first, attendance [...]

Nov

4

How Often is too Often? — The Perfect Swinging Schedule

November 4, 2009 | Leave a Comment

Swinging is a funny world. By definition, we are all in this lifestyle because sex is fun and we want the freedom to explore our sexuality both within and outside our marriage. However, there is this odd sort of judgment that happens when people think that others are too “slutty.” Like most [...]